security+feat: v1.3.0 — pentest remediation, container reliability, UI overhaul

Security (33 pentest findings addressed):
- CRITICAL: backend binds 127.0.0.1, path traversal in tor.rs/dwn fixed
- HIGH: federation requires signatures, XSS login redirect, RBAC viewer restricted
- HIGH: tar slip prevention, S3 SSRF validation, backup ID validation
- MEDIUM: remember-me random secret, TOTP session rotation, password re-auth
- LOW: CSP unsafe-inline removed, CORS dev-only, onion/webhook validation

Container reliability:
- Memory limits on all 37 containers (OOM prevention)
- Exited vs stopped state distinction with health-aware status badges
- Crash recovery coordination (no more restart cascade)
- User-stopped tracking survives reboots
- Tiered boot recovery (databases → core → services → apps)

UI:
- Wallet TransactionsModal, health-aware app status badges
- Restart button on containers, exited/crashed red state
- Mesh view overhaul, glass button updates, BaseModal/ToggleSwitch
- Apps sticky header removed, dev faucet, mutable mock wallet

Infrastructure:
- LND REST port 8080 exposed over Tor (LND Connect fix)
- Nginx cookie_session fix, deploy script Tor config updated
- Dev environment: podman auto-start, boot mode simulation

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

.claude/memory/MEMORY.md

@@ -5,6 +5,7 @@
 - [deploy-automation.md](deploy-automation.md) — Deploy script automation TODOs (API key, AIUI nginx, swap)
 
 ## Servers & Deploy
+- [project_environments.md](project_environments.md) — Four environments: dev mode, dev server/prod, demo
 - [tailscale_servers.md](tailscale_servers.md) — Tailscale server details (archipelago-2, archipelago-3)
 - [reference_tailscale_nodes.md](reference_tailscale_nodes.md) — All node IPs and SSH commands
 - [second-server.md](second-server.md) — Second dev server (archipelago-2 via Tailscale)