fix: overhaul container lifecycle — recovery, health, uninstall, UI state

Container recovery:
- Health monitor: MAX_RESTART_ATTEMPTS 3→10, interval 60s→120s
- Dependency-aware restarts: won't restart services before their deps
- Reset dependent counters when a dependency recovers
- Handle "created" state containers (were invisible to health monitor)
- Added IndeedHub, mempool-api, mysql to tier system
- Crash recovery: podman start timeout 30s→120s with retry
- Podman client: socket timeout 5s→30s, added restart policy

UI state representation:
- Exit code 0 shows "stopped" (gray), not "crashed" (red)
- Exit code 137 shows "killed (OOM)"
- Non-zero exit shows "crashed" (red)
- Added exit_code field to PackageDataEntry

Install/uninstall fixes:
- Install returns error when container doesn't start (was silent success)
- Post-install hooks awaited instead of fire-and-forget tokio::spawn
- Uninstall: graceful rm before force, volume prune, network cleanup
- Uninstall returns error on partial failure (was 200 OK)

Config consistency:
- DB passwords read from /var/lib/archipelago/secrets/ (was hardcoded)
- Bitcoin: added ZMQ ports 28332/28333 for LND block notifications
- IndeedHub port 7777→8190 (was conflicting with strfry)
- Marketplace versions: LND 0.17.4→0.18.4, Mempool 2.5.0→3.0.0

Performance:
- Metrics collector interval 60s→300s (was duplicating health monitor)
- Podman client: proper error propagation instead of unwrap_or_default

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

.claude/memory/MEMORY.md

@@ -34,6 +34,9 @@
 ## Deploy & Container Fixes
 - [project_deploy_session_2026_03_22.md](project_deploy_session_2026_03_22.md) — Fleet deploy fixes: credential mismatches, restart storms, rootless port 80, deploy script hardening
 
+## Gamepad Navigation
+- [project_gamepad_nav.md](project_gamepad_nav.md) — Controller nav system, key files, patterns, Chromium gotchas
+
 ## Completed Work
 - [project_mesh_198_issue.md](project_mesh_198_issue.md) — Mesh .198: 3 bugs fixed and deployed
 - [project_indeedhub_arch3_fix.md](project_indeedhub_arch3_fix.md) — IndeedHub Arch 3: corrupted combined tarball fixed